I got a text from my W yesterday, remarking on a comment I made on social media. It was a pleasant enough text, but it seemed like she was trying to say "I'm watching what you're doing." Which is just fine. I'm trying the "mystery-through-social" idea. Just trying to have a good time and enjoy life on my own, knowing there's nothing I can directly do right now in terms of working on the M. Those steps have to be taken by the one who left.