I'm going to go with this is not pursuing behavior since I am doing this for my stepkids...
Going to be a tough weekend, plenty of GAL activities planned but Sunday is a day of significance. Two years to the day that I went on a limb prior to our getting married to have her plastic surgery done to try and make her happy. She keeps talking about how she can't "risk" giving us another chance. I'm going to want to go on a tirade about how she has no idea what "risk" is, given that I built a 5 bedroom house so she could get full custody of her kids and went out on a limb for her surgery PRIOR to our getting married. It's all good and I've fully forgiven her for the wreckage I got left with though... Hopefully in time I'll be able to forget. I'm finally DB'ing so I'm certainly not going to be stupid on this day that she probably won't even think about, but it will still be a hard day for me...
I haven't spoke to her in two weeks, aside from one email exchange. For those who went through the "no communication" period with your spouse, how long does this usually last? I won't be the one that breaks the radio silence this time...
Enjoy your GAL weekend and good luck to all in your respective sitch's!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
