and ces - glad things went ok - way better than disastrous or awful.
i'm focusing on not trying to get from disastrous to great in one step - but aiming for the little steps in between - disastrous to not so bad, to this is ok and onwards. then it's not so devastating when you don't make the leap
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
