I have the time between now and July to use. Am planning on going NC but how else can I use my time wisely?
Is there any hope/use in me trying to somehow end his affair, cause a crisis in his world?
Or, should I just stop all contact and take the next 2 months to try to protect myself financially as much as I can (it's an automatic 50/50 split where I live unless I can get him to agree otherwise--this would leave him with $100k in his pocket and $3000 month in disposable income while I really struggle to manage._
