MR....FWIW,

My XH is living with OW.

This OW's husband shot my then H in the head and then tried to kill himself directly after.

Obviously my Xh and OW's xh lived.

OW's xh ( shooter) was put in prison. He gets out in 2015.

Do you have any idea what it does to me knowing my kids are over there every week? Knowing that when he gets out of jail he more than likely will go after Xh and OW and my kids are there?

Yet legally I can't do a damn thing about it. The shooter has shown no harm to my children and nor has his xw. Until my children are put into any situation or harms way....my xh has his parental rights.

I understand the anger, I do. I tried to put a morality clause into my divorce but it didn't stand. I had NO CHOICE but to let this go on.


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.