I absolutly understand you. I haven't re-entered the dating world, but can see where is is going to be a problem. (And I am older than you....)
I would tell you to come over here to Hawaii and hang out with me. You can come to the gym with me and have your pick of hunky marines. There are some pretty smart, nice guys who I work out with. Several about 10 years too young for me, but looking at retiring soon..... You can retire at 20 years from the military.
Anyway, like I told my sister when she got divorced: "Fish in the right pond." She found a wonderful guy, Reservist, Academy Grad, etc. They were happily married for almost 17 years when he recently passed away.
I do see the world as paired off and am worring about that. And in reality I've been single living as a double for 18 months now. And it is getting old.
I will tell you that as a "larger-than-life" person you just need to find a fellow big personality person. I know that person is out there. I know you will find that person. Heck, you might find that person at your next high school reunion....
Aloha!
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
