Not sure how to handle a recent request from my H. Any suggestions gratefully received.
He gave me an unsigned letter from his lawyer some months ago that requested my agreement to a separation of our assets. Presumably, because he GAVE it to me, and it was not signed by L, it was just a draft.
At the time he said I could throw it in the bin if I wanted - it was just an 'opening gambit'.
WTF?
He has now asked me for it back so he can 'make some changes'.
WTF X2?
Why wouldn't he just get his L to make the changes and send a new letter?
Should I give him my copy or should I just say that my L now has it?
I suppose I want to make him realise that getting a D isn't like this - you have to do it for yourself, not get your LBS to help you with the logistics.
AND, you have to pay (through the nose) for it!
Opinions?
Basically the letter said H would continue to pay kids' school fees and basic maintenance as long as I agreed to give him 40% of my superannuation and half of my house. Yeah, sure....
I replied by giving him a list of the types of financial information that would be needed in order to come to any agreement about financial matters (basically we need a list of assets and liabilities, tax statements, bank details, business details, etc). He refuses to produce this information.
