I like a chick who has a head on her shoulders... perhaps what I've found is that many of them ladies... well... they can be a little closed... or socially awkward...
A friend of mine is going on dates now after her D, but I think she's putting the horse ahead of the cart... she finds a guy she thinks she wants to be romantic with and focuses solely on him... I suspect she's moving too fast and actually scaring the gusy away...
so I'd recommend... get some guy friends... like really, just going out with the guys if you can...
think of it this way... guys hang with guys... which means... hanging with a few guys means... you'll meet more guys... and maybe a hunky single, smart, independent one who is open to something a little more with a smart chick...
Also, beware of yourself... if you trigger in any way, even small... either towards anger or sadness... it is likely to show up even in the slightest way and guys will pick up on that and might shy away...
