Because it's easy to give advice to someone when they've never experienced this for themselves.
I can't disagree with this statement in any way, shape, or form. It's human nature. I get that.
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Everyone here has experienced the pain of seeing their children go through this and have had to make the hard decisions.
But, the overwhelming sentiment in the MLC archive (not only this thread) is that most/all here seem to advocate the "hard decision" of remaining passive in regards to their children. No matter how much divorce busting and/or 'working on myself' we all do there comes a point - specifically when it comes to the well-being of our kids - that we have to call a spade a spade...
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Besides, there's no paradox to it. The fact is that your W (and you for that matter) can do whatever you want and actually introduce your D to whomever you go out with.
Thankfully, my lawyer does not share that sentiment - in regards to the context in which my wife placed our daughter in the situation I described.
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PLUS the guy isn't even in the states. So it's not like your D will be seeing him all the time.
A 4-year old child is very impressionable. It only takes one time to get burnt.
