I am at day three no contact. I have two more. I am curious if she will contact me or ? She really is not a game player. I know she is having a great time. With her friends.
Here's what I have learned so far... often this is how it will appear. But our WAS's are human too. So that means they have fears, worries, and second-thoughts. What she lets you see is her having a great time, because what else is she going to show you?
BUT... and this is a big BUT... you have to live your life and do whatever is you want (other than pursue and chase that is). Because she will check back, often at times, to make sure you're still there. Knowing that you are she can continue.
And the "friends" thing will make this all that much harder. I'm not saying don't do it, just be ready for it to be hard. I have pursued the same angle. I don't know if my WAW is my friend right now or not, though we treat each other in a friendly way. But we have kids in the mix. We have stepkids in the mix and so I can maintain a connection with them I try to keep things friendly b/w W and I. But it makes the clean break and LRT hard. Harder than if you have every reason to act like they don't exist except when there is a need to communicate. Be ready for this.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD
