B.S. Just as we can choose as the LBS to let our WAS's behavior affect us, the road works the other way. He chose to drink. Or perhaps he didn't (if he has addiction issues) but he also didn't choose to confront his problems. He chose the easy way out.
And that is a common WAS theme. If only WE had been different then THEY wouldn't have had to do what they did. We "forced" them into a path. Which is bull. They chose a path free and willing. But it's easier to place the blame somewhere else.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD
