MrBond posted this on another thread and it really rang true for me
" She was/is addicted to someone else and is pissed that you stand between her and that. Her actions probably mimicked alot of your own when you were at your worst."
I dont know if my H has another woman but I know he is in alcoholic frame of mind and he thinks I am preventing him from finding happiness. I am the cause of his depression. The D could have been so easy we would not even have needed lawyers if I didnt get in the way.
H told me in July before he moved out that he would stop drinking when he moved out. I was the reason he was drinking. The other night in a an Al-anon meeting a woman shared that her addict husband told her she was the reason he was an addict and I realized that my H line was script.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13