Hello Friends, its been a while since I posted in here.
the latest update is, nothing really... still separated, still talking, he has said we could put the family back together if he lived here. I think he truly believes it is 100% up to him..
I did have a melt down last week, I told him I was done, I was going to file, he acted like this shocked him.. he asked if he could call me and we could talk.
we spoke for a while, no yellilng, no being mean, I jsut listened to him.
Overall, he is still miserable, now he is miserable 120 miles away. he thinks summer will be better because he can spend more time with D, since she wont be at school. And suggested that maybe he and I cuold also spend more time together.
I asked him if he thought we could actually put the family back together and he said without hesitation "yes" if he could just get a job back here.
Its really strange, he really seems to be living in another world. he is truly not happy... and I am truly confused by all of it.
I am jsut staying as positive as I can, and trying my best to not expect anything. It is all i can do.
m 41 h 44 d 17 (prev marriage) d 9 Never give up!!!!!