My STBX will still hug me back. But I quit going to his room in the mornings. I had been doing that pretty much the whole time we were sleeping apart. And of course there was the 2 months when we were sleeping in the same bed and OW thought we were sleeping in seperate beds.

I did go climb in bed with him the other morning when the dog bit me. And like always he hugs me to him for awhile, then seems to remember he isn't supposed to do that and he turns away from me. I have made it 2 months and only gone in to lay with him 2 times. (No sex, in case anyone wonders...)

I guess like any habit I will eventually change it. Someone else was writing a few months back about sleeping, hugging, etc. I sure do miss that. But whatever......

Life is short and I want to enjoy what there is to enjoy!


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!