"This is the hard stuff. This is the conflict that in the past I would avoid. I don't regret putting my issues and feelings out there. I'm uncomforable with it, but its a change I need to make. I've wasted too many years trying to find the "right time" or the "right words" before dealing with something and often that led to surpressing my feelings. Not this time. There may have been ways to do it better but I did it and that's a good start for me."
Good for you, CES. It is time for the nice guys to start standing our ground. And if our W's push against us, we continue to hold steady and let them push until they realize it is time to work this stuff out.
Good luck tonight, I'm rooting for you.
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
