I undedrstand that this is a journey, and that I am nowhere near that perfect place we are all looking for.

But heck, even for those happily married, life presents challenges and sometimes struggles.

The way things are with me, growing and moving forward is not a linear motion. sometimes I plateau and sometimes I even backslide.

I guess you sense a tone to the language of my posts. That's my posting honestly, 'cause, no, I haven't reached that perfectly happy place yet. (And I still like to vent sometimes).

I know time will heal all wounds though. Metaphorically speaking, someday I'll be able to look at the faint trace of a scar on my body and say to myself, "I can barely remember how I got that."


Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."