Jks, I hope you've had some time today to calm down and think about things a little more clearly. I can see why you're upset, but like 2TP says, remember to believe none of what your H says, and 1/2 of what you see.
You need to focus on you and your kids. Re-read what 2TP said to you. I think the list will help you get back on track with DBing, and your goals for yourself.
