At the end of the day it really is just a piece of paper. I am mentally preparing for the same so my heart goes out to you, as wishing, hoping says you know the community is here for you.
Keep your chin up!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
