Stuck in Holding Pattern

[hopingandpraying]

I know how you feel that you just want to ask her those questions, but in a sense you can't really now. Like you said, you stated how you felt and she knows. If she has not brought up D, I would not bring that up or push her because then if you put that thought into her head (even if it is already there) then it's in there more.

My H, unlike your W, has mentioned D but he says it's all in my hands now how we get D. My take is that if he really wants it, he should go file and do it!

You are doing a great job!