Can I get a little love on a poll please? I haven't spoke to my W in two weeks, and we've exchanged one email in that time, with my explaining the 529k's for my stepkids.
So the question I am begging opinion on is:
Is putting a monthly deposit in my Stepchildren's 529k accounts I set up pursuing behavior?
Since it doesn't directly benefit my W I don't think it is, and I very well respect Kaffe Diem's opinion that is a good thing to show unconditional love within the confines in which I have to work (my spending time with stepchildren is out of bounds at this point). I realize that money does not equal love obviously, but given my time and attention are worthless if not negative value at this point, this is the best idea I could come up with. I would really appreciate some additional opinions on this because it does kind of fall in a "gray area".
Thanks in advance for your opinions and good luck to all in your respective sitch's!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
