It was hard seeing my W's intended apartment for the first time yesterday. W told me that lease signing is in a week and that she plans on being moved in completely within a maximum of three weeks. Good grief this is going way too fast for me! I know that we wouldn't reconsile until after she moved out...but...boy this is hard to contemplate. At least I'm past the weepy stage of this separation (though I'm sure it will come back). Now I'm dealing primarily with anger and resentment and trying to go through DR last resort technique. I'm thinking about throwing in a new 180 - getting rid of the terms of endearment e.g. "hon", "bebez", etc. and just calling my W by first name...man that will be hard. Any advice from the more experienced crowd who has gone through WAS and a move-out of W/H? Thanks.
