Thanks Being Me! SDA Lady and I have a really nice rapport. We both enjoy being silly but we also know that underneath that is a real warmth and caring. We actually talked about how we feel about each other last night. It was nice to share those thoughts with each other. She also told me last night that she has arranged a meeting with her employers on Friday morning to tell them "enough is enough". She is willing to give notice unless they reduce her hours and responsibilities. She works approximately 73 hours per week and the house they've moved into is 50% larger than the last one. She was also told yesterday that she needed to put the kids to bed one evening per week as the wife plans to attend a cooking class...so she can learn recipes that SDA Lady can cook for them! SDA Lady says "I'm not happy here, I've had enough of them" So, if they don't give her some reductions she will give her notice. She's been there four years and her best friend said yesterday "I know you love the kids but you're not loving yourself if you continue to stay and work like this. Where's your life?" She's right. So tomorrow, we'll see what happens.