And you may end up with a crazy story involving your soon-to-be divorced next door neighbor trying to pick you up in the dark storage bowels of a model train museum while you drink keg beer with random hash house harriers after you literally ran over her on a jog 30 miles from home in the pouring rain under the biggest double rainbow in recorded history.
Ya, we're gonna need to hear more of this story!
The weird/funny/twisted part of me and this potential Europe trip is I'd actually like to go as a totally single guy. I want to just do whatever I want without worrying about the morarity of having a W (in any capacity) back at home... If you catch my drift.
And the dating question is just when it would be "okay" to start actively persuing other women for a more than friends relationship. This could include online dating or getting set up on dates with friends of friends. I don't feel ready yet, and may not until/if D is final, was just putting it out there.
BEN-so is this^^^ your status now? Too much work to bother? Never saw the follow up posts - soooo I wondered...
I went to Europe as a single woman. Years later I went as a happily m woman. The latter was better...the single woman travelling in Europe is often like a Penthouse Forum article MEANING it's just a fantasy...not reality, I had fun and a fling or two, or three...
But that means a lot of time alone at night too and a lot of flings that were nothing special..although in such lovely areas...
and sometimes in a beautiful historic place, a "date" can say the stupidest things b/c hey, they don't "get" you b/c how can they? They don't know you.
Good luck Ben-hope at least you learned something so you aren't in the same boat in 3 years
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
