Update - BIL continues positive progress, still on life support, heavily sedated, H is there now to support where he can for brother and niece.
H asked for a ride to the airport. Not a big deal in most lives, but this is a huge change for H. Anyone remember those years that he didn't even tell me he was planning a trip until the day before when his suitcase was out?
As I dropped H at the checkin, he gathered up his bags, then set them all down and gave me a hug, and said he would let me know when he cleared security. When he called I ended the call saying "I know it's been a long time since I've said this but I love you." Dang! those cell phone but I know I heard 'you too' and I'm 99% sure that was preceeded with 'I love' from him.
8 years this week since this blew wide open, 7 months prior to that when I can pinpoint his change.
snodderly, overall I am holding up good but I really have no choice. At my town job they layed off another person in my department, another manager retired early, and I'm just swimming trying to manage it all. At home there is so much going on I feel like I will never catch up, yet things have to get done before it all falls apart. H also gave me things to do for him while he is gone. eeeeekk!
seeking and being, thanks for your thoughts and prayers. Very much appreciated.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
