Great texting and yes don't worry about what hes thinking. I know easier said than done!
Side note...did you read the book the social animal? Or do you just know your h is reading it?
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July