Btw, neither one of us has filed for D. We have no money and my L is a $3000 retainer just to file. This is going to be a very LONG process. I wonder if H even has a clue as to how much it is going to cost.
I agree with Scaredsilly above. Hang on, detach and go get yourself a life independent of your H. Use the time to better yourself and bide your time.
BTW - really sorry you are in sch a difficult sitch!
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