Grace, Love, Compassion, and Faith - It's A Choice

[JustStunned]

Val, Brace, Brace, Brace for I fear I may offend. I am fighting my tendencies to avoid conflict.

I perceive drama and emotion here that is not serving you. I perceive this hurting you.

Bluntly put this is what I see.

I feel like if I give her the check that she can walk all over me, if I don't - I'll get sh!t upon.

W Persecutor
Val Victim

w cashed first two payments after grilling me about not sending March's payment

W Persecutor
Val Victim

so once again I have to not send April's payment to show her that I was serious and that she does not get to keep money that is dedicated to me paying my health insurance.

Val Persecutor

Why try to show her anything in this manner? She’ll only see what she wants to.

I suspect she’ll play victim over not receiving the payment. I suspect she’ll shift to persecutor and grill you again over payment.

I know I am speculating. I perceive a pattern beginning.

I understand your anger. Try and let it go. To me it seems to be doing you more harm than good. To me it seems to be serving W more than you.