At this stage, the lawyer is working towards defending the divorce. So the custody part will only be discuss with the lawyer if defend is not successful. In fact my lawyer did told me during the first stage I have to try to settle it peacefully else at second stage, I might face problem in custody because she might make it hard for me.
As for what I have said to her, what done cannot be undone now. From our conversion yesterday, she is much farther away from me now.
