So H calls my son and tells him he is working late and won't be home until 9:30. That's a pretty late night considering. I suspect he is going to see OW but that I guess is neither here nor there. Anywho I am ticked because H didn't bother to tell me he was working late. I am the one who needs to know the information and I think it is childish and immature for him to communicate with me via S. When I try to contact him to confirm he doesn't answer.
Also S tells me H called to tell him his "friend" wants to know what S's favorite food is. Hmmmmmm....H still hasn't mentioned it to me. I feel like he is beig sneaky and underhanded by not being direct with me. I need to present boundaries because I am NOT comfortable with S staying the night. But then again maybe I should tell him if he takes one kid he needs to take them both because it is unfair. My sassy D would put a damper on that romance really fast! Especially if she doesn't get a nap!!!
Thoughts????
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"