The key here ^^^^ is that you're not telling him that what he's done is ok or not his fault. It is his fault and you have a right to be angry about it, particularly when combined with everything else. That being the case, stay away from the direct issue and look for tangential things to admire. One other idea is to admire the fact that he took some risk. That could have worked out really well. He certainly could have gotten a 9-5 job and slogged it out versus trying to be an entrepreneur. Taking that chance takes guts, and that's another thing that may be admirable.
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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015