So the problem I think I have with asking her what "working" on the relationships means/looks like to her is the VERY same thing that burned me yesterday. Her feeling that I am putting pressure on her. Pressure to say something, pressure to DO something, pressure period. I absolutely see the need to ask - but she is so hypersensitive to pressure It's tough to ask. I have this gut fear that she is going head for the hills if she feels pressure of any kind.
It's a crummy position to be in, if I am being ridiculous - let me know!
