Unlearning, Learning, Doing it Differently

[2thepoint]

I hope she is serious when she says she is open to working on the relationship. She hasn't said exactly what that means to her, but that is why I am trying this hard.

This is why I believe it is important for you to ask her next time she brings it up.

"W when you say you are open to working on the relationship, what does that look like to you?" And then validate like hell when she tells you.

I still believe that the time is coming for "Asking For What You Want" from your W. She is hell bent on the D, and if my memory serves me correctly, it is just weeks away from being final, correct?.

I asked this the other day and I will repeat it again; when is the best time to ask for what you want? Before the D or after?

There is no need for you to answer, just think about it.