I just want to be friends...Pt2

[breakdownbill]

Thanks WH. I had a pretty emotional day, but managed to make myself as distracted as possible. Yeah, my H last night said that he did see all the changes I made, and that he sensed they were quite deep. However, his resentment is such that he can't let it go. After 2 years??? I think it's more a choice at this point frankly. Yes, it is their loss. So, I am happy to let go and get some peace in myself.

Hi Yankee

I'm really sorry about the developments over the last few days for you. I've been really busy @ UNI & haven't had any time to visit these boards (haven't really got time to be here now - deadlines hitting me hard).

I think for you, as you had been getting stronger and stronger & realising what it is that you want from a relationship & what's important to you, this was going to come to a head.

Although this is still sinking in for you & you are somewhat grieving again, I think you were emotionally ready to either make a go of it with your H or move on.

2 years stuck in limbo is a hell of a long time & noone can say that you didn't fight hard to save your M.

I've been in limbo what 3 months? and it [censored]. My sitch is different because of the kids & the confessed affair, but ultimately everyone's sitch is very similar and whatever the complications it still hurts either way.

I'm probably not going to post on here for a couple of weeks as I really need to knuckle down with these last 2 assignments @ UNI.

I just wanted to check in & say hi & let you know I'm thinking about you.

Keep your head high Yankee & make sure you do something nice @ the weekend to take your mind of all of this while it's still raw.

take care

Bill