Thanks JS.

You have posted about the triangle and I am familiar with it..

..but I'm not sure how I am dancing on it again.

Are you saying I am being the prosecutor?

I'm trying to NOT be the enabler?

I would love to not do the triangle at all.. but I don't know how to break the cycle with her other than what I'm doing..

I feel like if I give her the check that she can walk all over me, if I don't - I'll get sh!t upon.

It feels like a lose/lose either way.

I can't think of a reason that God has allowed my w to act the way she has....

.... other than to teach me that my heart is worth protecting, and I need to learn to set healthy boundaries..

... and love in a healthy way.

M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.