Separation Helped So Far..

[anyhope]

Well I'm not sure what they're thinking, but without sounding rude they're not the brightest people of all. I told my mom how h said that ow is just his friend and prior to me moving she said why move, they're just friends. I'm guessing she was worried how I'll manage on my own without him, but she would be the perfect example why I shouldn't stay. She left my dad soon after I moved out (from home) and my brother was old enough and she said she'd only been with my father for years to raise us. When she left she already had her 2nd husband lined up, had she not met that guy she would of never left to be alone, shes not strong like that.
Aside from that my dad really likes h and so does my brother, to top it off my brother works for my husband so they're like brothers and that didn't change when he cheated, in fact my bro was told about ow before I was so he can be prepared of what's to come.
I'm pretty sure the reason h wants to be with me is not that he has no choice, but it was a perfect excuse for him to try and move in with me. I said no and shortly after he called me and announced that he found the perfect place down the street from me (1 min walk) I was pissed but what can I do? Tho I told him I don't want to be so close to him. That apartment turned out to be not available after all and he is moving elsewhere, but he's not far (5 min tops by car), still better than right next to me :-/
So thats the update on the move situation...