Originally Posted By: sayitaintso
Originally Posted By: ces67
I try and remember that each one of us have free will. We can choose to do good or otherwise. Any one of us can be impacted negatively by others poor choices regardless of the positive choices we make each day.

It goes back to what we can control and what we can't. My relationship with God is not based upon the choices of others and IMO, I won't hold God accountable for when others make choices that I feel are not what God would prefer.


I like your perspective here CES^^^.


Hope you are having a better day Ro. As much as things may seem to suck I do see a lot of positives in your sitch. What can you do to focus on those more instead of the negative feelings you are having? What you focus on expands right?


I have a hard time seeing positives when they are not the positives I WANT to see. LOL

You are right. I need to focus on the positive things that are happening right now. Someone smart (nhmom I believe) told me to start a gratitude list. I'm beginning to think I'm going to need more than one list.

Thanks for checking in on me SIAS! :-)


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