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Oh and to top it off, he is telling everyone that I "kicked him out" Sigh


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Well, he could really use some "original" material! GOD!


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
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He is exhausting. Now we are heading to the same conference for our jobs, staying separately and flying separately. But we share friends and it will be impossible not to see one another. Just preparing some responses in advance to avoid any conflict and keep things as civil as possible. Hoping the next few days go quickly.


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Autumn you just be the best you can be...that's all that matters now anyway. F*&^ him if you run into him. Let him spin the story however he wants. I think they do that to make themselves feel less guilt and pain for what they have done. You just concentrate on being true to you.

Have a great conference, and enjoy yourself:)

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Autumn, your response to any spew about filing itself:


"Everything I'm doing is to try to protect our kids and myself. Let's just try to get thru this as civilly as possible. "


Or


"I did what I decided was best, and I fully realize its not easy on ANYBODY. Let's just try to get thru this, and be there for the kids. "


DON'T GET INTO ANYTHING DEEPER THAN THOSE.



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BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

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The beautiful thing about living in the truth is that you do not have to remember the details of what you said.

Carry your head high.


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Autumn - Hope everything is going well at the conference.

Miss chatting w/my friend!


April.. LoL You always give me a laugh! (I'm thinking what you're saying!)


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

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Thanks everyone! Not only has he been spewing, he is lying so much. It is ridiculous. He is really trying to make me look like the bad guy. It makes me so angry.

He contacted my tenant, who also works for me, and said "I'm sure you have heard Autumn filed, and I am wondering if you are concerned about the house. My goal is to let her have the one we live in and I will keep the one you live in, and continue to rent to you"

As if that is up to him first of all, and secondly he is trying to bring people to "his side". His M.O.
She couldn't wait to tell me about it this morning, lol

He is exhausting.


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Oh the world of lies and whatnot that they spew......One should build a park for peeps like this.

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LOL April that is so true!!

It is my weekend with the boys and I plan to spend it enjoying them. S17 has to work most of the weekend. S15 and I are going to see my mom and brother for lunch tomorrow, for Mothers Day.

Sunday after S17 gets home from work, I plan to barbecue with them, just the 3 of us. Really looking forward to that.

Had a nice time out with my girlfriends last night. It was much needed. They are so supportive in all of this. I am so lucky to have them.

I had to unfriend him today, it is too negative for me to see what he is doing and I really don't want him to see what I am doing either. It is unhealthy. I am glad I did it.


-Autumn

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