Well, I guess it was inevitable that things would turn. We were amicable and discussing kids and finances only, and doing it quite well. Last night we had a brief conversation about S17's prom. Ended it saying that we were relieved we could do this and hope it continues.
Ugh not so much...
This morning I got a notification from the joint bank account that didn't match what he was saying to me. I forwarded it and asked "is this accurate, as I haven't touched this account at all" He said that it was and asked me to move money to cover and proceeded to tell me 'how hard this is for him, he is extra frugal and packing lunch' and 'everything I take from there is for the house and kids' Proceeded to act like a victim, and blame me for "his situation"
I responded "its an unfortunate consequence of infidelity, please do not discuss finances with me any longer and please don't email me again"
I will now let my L handle finances. He will be served in the next day or two.
I am choosing happiness for me today and will not engage with him at all.
