Is this cake eating 5

[labug]

"you shouldn't feel guilty, it is what it is.."

I'm sure you know how this sounds... I used to do the same thing, because I knew how everyone should feel about everything. It's their issue to fix and trying to fix it for them sends the message, "you can't do this, you need me to help."

Accuray wrote a little more about it here:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...510#Post2241510