Last week when I hired a db coach, she asked me to read 5 love languages. I noticed something. I had always noticed my wife kept cards that I got for her near her make up station. So when I got her a gift I also bought a blank card and wrote just a simple, 'I thought this would be nice for you" In looking back to her receiving the gift. She was holding it very firmly. She was very happy I got her a gift. To her love language, I had missed her, and gave her something personal.