Not sure where to start, Part 2

[BklynMom]

Its been almost a year for me and I still miss my best friend deeply. I constantly want to share random things with him and I cant. It stinks.

Your H asked son to join him in a couple of weeks, so the first thing is to slow down and find out all the facts and then make a decision dont react.

Whatever your H feelings for this OW are they will fade over time. Dont try to stop him from being with her this will only make her seem more desirable. Let her flaws reveal themselves on their own.