Many on this board will tell you that I was (and still am sometimes) one of the most pathetic posters here, but it really does get easier. It may be hard for you to believe at this point, but it really does.
I was at a point where I thought of calling her everyday. Now, I still think about her throughout the day, but I wouldn't even consider calling her. Why? Because she just needs to be left alone. Besides, she would probably just say something to hurt me anyways.
As for the other person, that will burn you for a while, but eventually you'll get to a point where it hardly bothers you at all. (I know, it is hard to believe, but it is true.)
Time is your friend right now.
Take care.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
