My wife is someone who love my boy too much that I can handle. She buy things for him (toys/shirt/etc), she plan things for him (insurance)
What led me not to be involve is ok of her expectation. Our boy GR wakes up in the morning. First thing in the morning is to bring him to the toilet and let him "poo".
Then she will bath him. After let him play around, before 11am he will take a short nap and when he wakes up before 12pm, she will feed him. Then after we will bring him out for shopping. Before 3pm we have to bring him back because he needs a afternoon nap.
After nap, he wakes up, we play with him and he have his dinner at around 6pm. Follow by some activities with him and he go to sleep before 9pm.
In between the night, he will wake up for night feed.
I was never involve for 2 reason. 1)I dislike the routinue set. 2) If i do things wrongly (not her way)I will receive some nagging from her. I am trying to avoid the nagging too.
I know i take things for granted but I just hate the nag like she hate my too.
Just a few example which i see from my in law place. 1) She bought a baby spoon for her mother to feed GR but her mum forget and use the adult spoon to feed him, she was unhappy.
2) Whenever GR have Mosqito bite, she will scream at her mum. you must apply this for him before going anywhere.
these are just few example.
Originally Posted By: MrBond
"I am not involve previously for certain reason."
What was the reason that you weren't involved before?
