Hey Pickle

Good to hear from you.

Is this a joyful place for you in your life?

I still hear a lot of judgment directed at your W. Maybe warranted for her choices but how long will you blame her for YOUR unhappiness?

Or

Forgive her. And LIVE.

Forgiveness is the gift we give ourselves. Don't forget I am a fellow in your Catholic faith...

How do you think she would feel if she was relieved of the burden of guilt you put upon her with your silence or otherwise dismissive posture?

I think you are way past detachment so now you are not protecting yourself are you?

I am not saying she might come back or anything I am only saying you might feel better letting go and she might too.

What's the harm in that?

Your sig "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."

I am going to challenge you:

What is your definition of defeat?

What is your definition of success?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am