Tad's Overdue Update

[AntoniaB]

"I would love to have a nice conversation with you, but you just can't seem to do it."

Alright, well, she's challenging you to act the way she wants you to act "or else."

So, if the XW starts uttering "challenges", it's probably best to just ignore her. She's setting you up. She's already decided that YOU are the problem, not her. You can't possibly diffuse that situation if you walk into it.

I'd say that any kind of parental agreement stuff, if it's anything that goes off the original legal agreements, needs to go back to taking place with lawyers and not face-to-face (whether that's in person or face-to-face) as long as she's making statements like that.