AND it is not damaging to your daughter to grill her? Have you considered how your D may have felt? Buddy, I am warning you NOW. Keep your kids out of it.
I disagree with those statements 1000%. When my daughter volunteers this information, and displays excessive anxiety only since she returned from China, and crying and screaming "Daddy, daddy don't leave me alone!!!" when her mom is coming to pick her up after work...you better be damn straight I'm going to confirm what her poor little 4-year old brain is trying to communicate to me. I didn't go snooping for information. She came to me...
If you saw you're loved one being driven towards the edge of a cliff, would you stand by and let her go over the edge?
About all the rest of your statements, I sincerely appreciate your feedback. Here's the thing though. I don't give a damn what my wife does these days. On the other hand, I absolutely care what she does...to our kids. That's the distinction.
