Well the D was final last week and I will be moving out at the end of May.It has been friendly,no fighting or arguing even though I hate what she has done and completely disagree with the D.
I'm kind of in limbo about what to do,I do not want to jump into another relationship but it has been very lonely being married the past 5 years but not really having a wife.

I am not pursuing or letting her see the hurt that I am feeling but I have not given up hope on us remarrying somewhere down the road.

She mentioned that a while back,she said something about who knows once we have time apart we may find our way back to each other.She has to go and find whatever it is that she thinks she missed out by being married so young.

That oh so wise therapist told her that she never had a chance to find out who she was because she has been with me since she was 15,I know there is truth it that but still no reason to end a 29 year marriage and break up a family.

I am not going to sit around and just wait for her,I will enjoy some time by myself also and the fact that I am moving to a condo on the beach will have the kids visiting often.


Married 28 yrs
Seperated 6 mths
Rec D Papers 11/24
W Canceled D
Moved Back Home 3/1/08
2 Kids D23 and S16
Trying 2 Put R Back Together