Thanks again, Busto. Given where I am right now, I don't know if saying "I am done" is the right move to make. As much as it hurts to say, that day may come - and perhaps even this moment I need to become a *bit* more scarce, but I don't know if I should do a total Houdini just yet.
I don't know how any of this is going to play out, but I am hoping that consistency in change will eventually help her open back up some. That, along with the staying consistent even after D. I have said this multiple times, but I think she honestly believes that I am going to wave the white flag and revert after divorce. And, based on other WAW feedback - it is a legitimate fear to have.
I do, however, see your point about giving her time to miss me. It's just so hard to do when there is a little one in the mix. I would fear that I would be coming off as a jerk. Not sure.
