I'll have to go read your threads and see what all you have been dealing with. Thanks for jumping in to mention the similarities.
I am about 99% sure there is no OW in my situation. I have done enough snooping here and there to verify things and really with the amount of time he spends with us, she'd have to really not care much about him or she'd be putting her foot down. Lol I've wondered about EA, but I just can't see any options that I think would be possible. And I have done my homework. I really hope I'm not wrong. He is a really bad liar too, and we have talked a few times about it. I feel if there was one, he would be happy to tell me that and dare me to say something about that too.
I am really feeling lately we are entering midlife crisis land. I see a few more signs all the time. That scares me to death, because then I know DB is going to help, but I am up against so much more than just our own issues. I'm not sure though. I am about to post an update about our morning, so maybe someone will say what they feel.
You are so right when you say they won't know what they've got until it's gone. I feel 100% sure my husband will regret this if he follows through with the divorce and I get to the point where I don't want to try anymore. I think I will try for a long time though. I love this guy, we've been together with no other people in our lives since we were 17 years old. This sure does feel like it came out of left field though.
M 36 H 36 D9,S6, Expecting D in August 2012 M 13 T 18 Told me he wanted to separate 12/31/2011 Moved Out 2/2/2012 Didn't want to work on things, wanted divorce 4/20/2012
