Thanks--You are right, I have to really try not to talk too much and let him come up with a little bit of what he wants to talk about. He gets so moody when we are together. Today it was about the kids, he feels like he is not being a good Dad. I will post an update in a second and explain more. I didn't let him drift into relationship talk though, I just listened. Was supportive. Encouraging. And told him I think he is a great Dad. Which he is. I really couldn't ask for a guy that would be better, even in this situation.
I'm working on the patience part a lot. It is hard for me. Today threw us for a loop, but I think it was a good day. And we still have tonight when we go to the family night thing. I am really keeping it at the forefront of my mind that I need to have patience, avoid relationship talk, and validate and support him in what he says. I can't afford too many more talks like last weekend.
M 36 H 36 D9,S6, Expecting D in August 2012 M 13 T 18 Told me he wanted to separate 12/31/2011 Moved Out 2/2/2012 Didn't want to work on things, wanted divorce 4/20/2012
